Broke Up With My Girlfriend And I Just Want To Move On
Posted by Daniel on Monday, 10 May, 2010 @ 9:00 am
Most of us will have to endure many breakups throughout our lives. The idea is that we have to ‘kiss a lot of frogs’ before we meet the right one. That doesn’t make the process any easier when it happens and it doesn’t make the idea that we will be happy and find love again, any easier to believe. You may find yourself asking: broke up with my girlfriend, how do I move on? If you ask ten different people you’ll likely get ten different answers, and most of them will probably be wrong. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t know it all, but I do know that when it comes to starting over you can make things a lot tougher if you make bad choices.
Two of the worst things a guy can do to ease a broken heart is to go out and drink himself into oblivion and/or pick up women. In the short term these two things may make you feel a little better, but in the long run you’ll end up feeling worse than before. For example, if you get drunk you’re also going to get hungover. I don’t know about you but the idea of having a broken heart and puking my guts out at the same time really doesn’t sound that appealing. Stay sober, sure it hurts but it could be worse. Don’t try to drown your sorrows by screwing your way through as many woman as possible, that’s just not the way to treat anyone. The women you meet didn’t have anything to do with your break up and they may be wonderful people. Just because you’re hurting doesn’t give you the right to treat them like crap. Remember, some day this will all just be a bad memory and the pain will be gone, how do you want to feel? Do you want to be filled with guilt over the lousy choices you made during this time or do you want to be able to hold your head up and realize you dealt with things in a decent way? The choice is yours. So if you’ve been saying: broke up with my girlfriend , now what?, you now have your answer. It will take time, but you will be just fine.
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May 11th, 2010 at 4:14 am
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